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Trust

Do not fret - it only causes harm

Trust

Do not fret-it only causes harm. (psalm 37:8)

Motivational writer Dale Carnegie asked Captain Eddie Rickenbacker what was the biggest lesson he learned from 21 days in a lifeboat, hopelessly adrift in the Pacific. Rickenbacker said, "The biggest lesson I learned from the experience was that if you have all the fresh water you want to drink and all the food you want to eat, you ought never to complain about anything."

The Bible says something similar: "And having food and clothing, with these we shall be content" (1 Timothy 6:8).

We so easily fret about a thousand things every day, tying ourselves into knots of worry. But we have heavenly Father who knows our needs, and Psalm 37 says, "Delight yourself also in the LORD, and He shall give you the desires of your heart...Trust also in Him...Rest in the LORD, and wait patiently for Him...Do not fret - it only causes harm."

This year, resolve by God's grace to worry less, trust Him more, and live with joy and thankfulness for all He gives us. #turningpoint

The habit of looking on the best side of every event is worth more than a thousand pounds a year. 

~Samuel Johnson


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Sovereign answers

But this people has a stubborn and rebellious heart;

they have turned aside and gone away.

They do not say in their hearts,

‘Let us fear the Lord our God,

who gives the rain in its season,

the autumn rain and the spring rain,

and keeps for us

the weeks appointed for the harvest.’

(Jeremiah 5:23-24)

Carter was probably three years old when he had his first true temper tantrum. Keith was gone to work and after a full morning of play followed by lunch, I told him it was time to lay down for a nap. He immediately proceeded to throw himself on the floor - wildly flinging his arms and legs while screaming at his loudest tenor, while I tried to pick him up. I still vividly remember how surprised I was and how much it hurt my heart to see this behavior over something as simple as "let's take a nap". 

As I look back on my own life, I can see these same types of tantrum's that I've had with my Heavenly Father. You know, when...

  • When He makes me wait longer than what I would like before answering my prayer.

 

  • When He doesn't answer in the way that I wanted or expected.

 

  • When He just says "no".

Yet, I often look back and shake my head at my stubborn and rebellious heart. It's funny how quickly I forget that God always knows what's best. His answers always prove to serve me more effectively than anything I could ever conjure up. His answers always produce my optimal personal growth and maturity, despite my knee-jerk tantrums. 

As always, Carter woke up that day from his nap feeling refreshed, energized, and happy, and I reminded him "momma was right...you needed that nap"!  

In the same way, I often find myself looking back and seeing God's goodness through His sovereign answers to my prayers despite what I thought I wanted or needed.  Interestingly, I've not yet seen my Heavenly Father find the need to say "I told you so" as I do with my children - or anyone else that challenges me, for that matter. 

Thank you Lord for your grace and mercy despite my stubborn ways. Thank you for your Word that gently reminds me:

"For my thoughts are not your thoughts,

neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord.

For as the heavens are higher than the earth,

so are my ways higher than your ways

and my thoughts than your thoughts."

May You be glorified and I be humbled, as I submit myself to You and Your sovereign answers to my prayers. It's in Jesus matchless name I ask these things, Amen.


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Just Ask

Just. Ask.

 

25 I am laid low in the dust;

    preserve my life according to your word.

26 I gave an account of my ways and you answered me;

    teach me your decrees.

27 Cause me to understand the way of your precepts,

    that I may meditate on your wonderful deeds.

28 My soul is weary with sorrow;

    strengthen me according to your word.

29 Keep me from deceitful ways;

    be gracious to me and teach me your law.

30 I have chosen the way of faithfulness;

    I have set my heart on your laws.

31 I hold fast to your statutes, Lord;

    do not let me be put to shame.

32 I run in the path of your commands,

    for you have broadened my understanding.

33 Teach me, Lord, the way of your decrees,

    that I may follow it to the end.[b]

34 Give me understanding, so that I may keep your law

    and obey it with all my heart.

35 Direct me in the path of your commands,

    for there I find delight.

36 Turn my heart toward your statutes

    and not toward selfish gain.

37 Turn my eyes away from worthless things;

    preserve my life according to your word.[c]

38 Fulfill your promise to your servant,

    so that you may be feared.

39 Take away the disgrace I dread,

    for your laws are good.

40 How I long for your precepts!

    In your righteousness preserve my life 

(Psalm 119:25-40).

I normally study from ESV, but this morning I'm compelled to share with you a passage from Psalm 119 in the NIV Bible. I hear so often that people are afraid to ask God for things because they either feel too blessed already or they're just not willing. It's so clear to me in the Psalms and throughout the Bible, that we are called to seek Him. Ask.

So many times we put God in a box the size of our biggest problem. We forget that we are speaking to a God without limits. "For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to give strong support to those whose heart is blameless toward him." Ask. 

Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened. Or which one of you, if his son asks him for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a serpent? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him! (Matthew 7:7-11). 

Ask.

In just this one short passage from the longest psalm in the Bible, Psalm 119, I found 14 requests that David made:

1) give me life;

2) make me understand;

3) strengthen me;

4) put false ways away from me;

5) let me not be put to shame;

6) enlarge my heart;

7) teach me;

8) give me understanding;

9) lead me;

10) incline my heart;

11) turn my eyes;

12) confirm to your servant;

13) turn away the reproach; and

14) give me life

 

 

Beautiful. Stop doubting. Just ask. Does He answer in exactly the way I anticipate? Rarely. 

He wants to be invited into every area of our lives - from the menial to the major.  The public and the hidden things. Do you understand that? Do you BELIEVE that? 

Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you (1 Peter 5:6-7).

I'll be praying for you to be be BOLD in your prayers. To be EXPECTANT in your prayers. And most of all to be CHANGED by your prayers. He's the potter and we are the clay. May your heart and mind be transformed by the asking. 

God bless. 


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It's all about the climb

It's all about the climb

The Lord came down on Mount Sinai, to the top of the mountain. And the Lord called Moses to the top of the mountain, and Moses went up. 

Exodus 19:20

Did you catch that? 

The Lord came down to the top of the mountain. God called him...and Moses went up to the top of the mountain. 

We probably all have the dad or grandfather who told us about his hardship in life as he was growing up..."You think you have it hard…try walking back-and-forth to school every day through the snow FIVE miles uphill BOTH ways!" 

I've never climbed a literal mountain...unless you count walking the steep fairway of the 27th hole on a 90° day while golfing as a kid. Lol. It sure felt like a mountain! 

But I have watched from afar, the actual climbs my friends, Daren Falter, Chris Medina, and Ricky Fountain did at Mount Adams and Mount Rainier, and I am flabbergasted. Ascending to 14,410 feet above sea level, Mount Rainier stands as an icon in the Washington landscape. The physical and mental strength required to complete the feat doesn't happen overnight. It takes months of training physically, and years of training mentally. They say the desire to quit can overtake you in a moment. I can't imagine. 

What I CAN imagine and HAVE experienced personally, are the mountains we climb in life. 

  • Overwhelming debt
  • Poor health
  • Loss of jobs
  • Death of a loved one
  • ...the list goes on and on...

Maybe Forest Gump said it best, "Life is like a box of chocolates...you never know what you're gonna get." I've seen highs and I've seen lows in all these areas. One thing I know for sure as I look back - I would truly not appreciate the heights of joy, if I had not first experienced the depths of sorrow. 

"Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing." (James 1:2-4)

This prayer from one of my favorite pastors, can speak for all of us:  "Lord God, I trust You, and I’m going to wait for Your timing. I need peace without resolution. The end isn’t in sight, God, and I need rest during this season of hardship. My resources aren’t sufficient, my wisdom can’t plot a way out, and my ingenuity can’t remove the pressure. But You know all about that. You saw it coming, chose to allow it, and promise to use it for my good. I want my thoughts to reflect a greater confidence in You. Forgive me for the times I’ve strived to do too much, and forgive me for the times I’ve worried and doubted You. Teach me to trust and wait. You know when, God. I choose to trust You and wait for You to act. Please give me rest and peace, in the name of Jesus, “for he himself is our peace” (Ephesians 2:14a), amen."

Wherever you are, put your trust in Creator God who gives and takes away. He allows hardships to come into our lives because of the person it causes us to become in the process. Someone once told me that when you look at the back of a knitting or crochet project, it looks like a mess. But when you flip it over, the beauty can take your breath away. That's life. When you look at yourself "in the process", it looks and feels like a mess. But when you're finally through the refiners fire, you're perfect and complete, lacking nothing - beautiful. 

Learn to love the process

We serve a God who is calling us to the top of the mountain. 

Let's start climbing.

 


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